I can I will, I can I will, I can I will...
I can I will I can I will I can I will I can I will …
When was the last time that you said those words to yourself?
When was the last time that you reminded yourself of all of the stuff that you manage to wangle? Of all that you are? The last time that you paid attention to noticing what a sh*t hot job you do?
Are you the first one to build the people that you love up? To be right there with a hug (and some wine) to let them know how amazing you think they are, how proud they should be of the way that they get through it all… how much they mean to you. How great they look in that new outfit, how wise, clever, hilarious they are. How much you love and appreciate them?
What a priceless gift.
Feeling supported, loved, seen, heard like that means so much.
Regular doses of that magic, and in no time they will start to feel unstoppable.
That they can do anything they put their minds to.
That they are enough just the way they are.
That it’s safe to try, to stuff up, to have a go… because they are loved, valued, there is someone there to cheer them on, to catch them if they stumble, that they wont be judged
Imagine if you quietly noticed that stuff about yourself too.
Imagine if you gave the gift that you give to so many others to your self.
Imagine if you quietly whispered I can I will I can I will I can I will I can I will I can I will I can I will I can I will I can I will
into your own ear every day.